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Starbright..Diamonds

So, I am back from NYC and the GIA (Gemological Institute of America). I went for the Diamond Grading Lab portion of the Graduate Gemologist Courses. The Diamond Lab was INTENSE. There was so much technical, but great information to know. The instructor was truly fantastic and I am more inspired and curious about gems than ever before. After the training, I escaped to the Berkshire Mountains for a Yoga retreat weekend. It is gorgeous there.

The evening sky looked like it was filled with glittering diamonds. I love nature and the mountains so much. To be outside in the Northeast during spring was a dream come true. The stars have always been a source of hope for me and this made me wonder, do we love Diamonds because they look like the stars or is it the other way around? The moon reminds me of silver, translucent gems and pearls. The sun is gold and the stars are diamonds, of course.

If you are lucky enough to own a diamond, much less a colored one, you know how the comparison can be made.

I’ll never forget the first diamond that I received; it was a tiny cross from my mom for my high school graduation. I know her wedding ring was her first diamond. One of my favorite diamond love stories is about a friend of mine whose husband didn’t eat lunch for 9 months to save up for a diamond ring for his pregnant wife. She delivered a healthy baby boy 2 weeks early so he had to run home with a lame excuse so he could bring her the ring at the hospital. They just had their second boy a few years ago in July. He bought her another diamond and ruby ring this time to go with the first one. She wears them stacked and they look amazing. The story and love behind them as a family are even more amazing.

Diamonds have more lore and history than any other gem. I think that counts in a universal way as well as for us as women personally. They are an intimate statement about who we are when we wear them as they reflect the light within each one of us, as well as their own. Don’t your diamonds have stories to tell? Any reason from “I deserved it” to a graduation or wedding will do.

So many women now buy diamonds for themselves. I love that! You should! I bought myself a replacement diamond cross on a bad Valentine’s Day back in the 90’s. I lost the one my mother bought me and it broke my heart. I then replaced it that infamous February 14th. It felt great, well, better anyway. It was an Independence Day for me. I didn’t think I would ever get married that day and I decided if I wanted a diamond in my life, I was going to have to buy it myself. And that is exactly what I did.

Diamonds are emotional investments as much as, if not more than financial ones. What other item does a person own that they literally keep for a lifetime? You don’t need a special excuse these days to own a beautiful diamond.


So what is your favorite or most sentimental diamond story?

Rock on,
Shivan


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(24 comments for Starbright..Diamonds)

Linda-Marie, NJ 08/05/2008
Hi Shivan: I watched your technibond show last night.. fabulous... I am a technibond girl and I don't have a diamond story but my emerald story is great. I am a May baby and I love my birthstone. I just purchased the emerald pendant, emerald bracelet, and emerald stack rings all in technibond. GORGEOUS! and they all look very EXPENSIVE(my nickname). Thankxxx to HSN and u for bringing us affordable and fantastic selections. I work on Jeweler's Row in Philly, could not believe the quality.
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Linda-Marie, NJ 08/05/2008
Hi Shivan: I watched your technibond show last night.. fabulous... I am a technibond girl and I don't have a diamond story but my emerald story is great. I am a May baby and I love my birthstone. I just purchased the emerald pendant, emerald bracelet, and emerald stack rings all in technibond. GORGEOUS! and they all look very EXPENSIVE(my nickname). Thankxxx to HSN and u for bringing us affordable and fantastic selections. I work on Jeweler's Row in Philly, could not believe the quality.
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Linda, TX 07/23/2008
I woul would love to find a 4 or 5 carat Chrome Diopside ring for my husband, but most stones have been small. Any ideas?
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Barb, TX 07/22/2008
Hi Shivan! I truely love listening to your insights on the items you are presenting and jewelry in general. I have a request for you and HSN to bring us a cultured pearl and absolute line bracelet in both silver and vermeil. One that is not too big and can be worn next to other absolute line bracelets. I think it would be a hit! Thanks again and keep up the warm, personable and knowledgable presence you always bring!
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jean, PA 07/19/2008
shivan, i have a comment on the way many hosts show a ring. instead of placing their hand in the east-west position, it would be more effective in the north-south position. spread the word.......
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Terry, FL 07/07/2008
Shivan, Please bring more A Jaron Designs to your shows. I purchased a ring online and another during Amanda's last show. I would love to see her on more often and earlier since I live in Florida. Please see what you can do because I can hardly wait for her next collection. I just love wearing her jewelry with jeans like Amanda suggests. I feel so elegant and sophisticated. Thanks in advance.
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granny, IL 07/07/2008
SHIVAN,would you please do me a favor and bring back this item:#299-203,this pendant from thailand,only i would like it larger as this one is the size of a quarter,but on t.v. it looks bigger.i realize it would cost more money,but it would be worth it at least a person would be able to see it,and be able to tell what it's suppose to be.thank-you.
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lois, IL 07/07/2008
shivan,thank-you for taking the time to read this,but could they please bring back the bubble-jewelry.i just got interested in it when they stopped having it on????.i bought a rolo bracelet,like a charm bracelet,with a heart dangling down and when i removed my coat,i had forgotten about it and somehow i lost it.i thought they would have it back on hsn,but so for they haven't.it looked like a tennis bracelet,but in a rolo chain with the bubble stones.thank-you so much..
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Pam, NY 06/26/2008
I like they way you show how pieces go together or can be worn on other chains The M/L bracelet actually looked better as it fell on your hand nicely You are one of my favorite hosts as you don't over sell but allow the jewelry to speak for itsself I llok forward to your show tomorrow from 7-9 thanks for sharing your love of jewelry with us.
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Roger, NY 06/26/2008
Hi Shivan, I must say you show very beautiful jewelry, and you do it in style, your very elegant, and have very beautiful hands and nails to show off that beautiful jewelry, hope to here from you soon
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lois, IL 06/23/2008
shivan,love you on with suzanne somers,i just received the trilliant-cut ring from suzanne somers,and i love it.i got it in the amber color.i wish that they would bring these in a bangle bracelet,as these are so lovely to wear,and so different.thank-you and keep-up the good-work.
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lois, IL 06/20/2008
shivan,i love this technibond jewelry show,but i wish that they would bring more bangles that we can just slip-on-and go.like this item#272-339,only turn this cuff bracelet,into a bangle,same thing with this item#326-815.thank-you.
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granny, IL 06/17/2008
shivan,i wish that suzanne somers would still call us when she is going to be on hsn.she is one smart-lady,and a sucessful bunisess lady..i love her jewelry line,i have never had a problem with it.thanks hsn.
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lois, IL 06/17/2008
shivan,i'm having trouble getting threw.but i would like to do a shout-out for suzanne somers on her 16 anniversary on hsn.i love her jewelry this time,and she looks great.i wish that she would do more clip-on earrings,as i do-not have pierced ears.thank-you.
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lois, IL 06/17/2008
i would like to do a shout-out,to suzanne somers for her 16 anniversary on hsn.she looks great,and love her jewelry.i would like more of the clip-on-earrings-i do-not have pierced ears.i'm having trouble getting this to go threw.thank-you.
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Sharon, CA 06/14/2008
Great blog! Really fun to read, and a neat perspective on the gems that you sell...love it! Always watch when you're onn -keep up the good work :)
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Dave, FL 06/12/2008
I love reading your blogs Shivan! Its so refreshing when a Show Host with personality lets us know its for real and not some act. I always watch you when you are on, its quite addictive. Your knowledge of gems is surpassed only by your eagerness to make sure all questions are answered before we pick up the phone and order. By the way, your Gem choices have saved my marriage many time over..lol! Be well and keep raising the bar every time you are on air.
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D, CT 06/10/2008
I love reading your blogs Shivan! Its so refreshing when a ShowHost with personality lets us know its for real and not some act. I always watch you when you are on, its quite addictive. Your knowledge of gems is surpassed only by your eagerness to make sure all questions are answered before we pick up the phone and order. By the way, your Gem choices have saved my marriage many time over..lol! Be well and keep raising the bar every time you are on air.
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Karen, FL 06/08/2008
Thanks for sharing your personal stories. I love the fact that you know so much about gems and have the opportunity to further your knowledge on diamonds and gems through your job. How exciting is that! My diamond story is when my finance surprised me with a 5 ct yellow diamond wedding ring! I was breathless!
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Lulu, NY 06/08/2008
Thanks so much, Shivan, for your perspective on diamonds. It actually validates feelings I have had for many years. And yes! I bought myself a diamond once and felt great about it! So, self-confident women of the world, UNITE! Let's reward ourselves just for being the amazing people we are with baubles, bangles, beads and a gorgeous diamond!
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Cortney, FL 06/07/2008
Let me know if this worked, but I was just wanting to say that shivan you have done your homework and your presentation is perfect!! I can tell you have been working hard and it shows on TV. I cherish the only diamonds I own from my mom following grad. school. They mean the world to me as I'm sure all of those that own a diamond have a tie to a wonderful memory
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Cortney, FL 06/07/2008
Shivan a diamond is a girls best friend. It can be small and subtle earrings or a princess shaped engagement ring. There are so many types and designs that are acquainted w/different occasions. The only diamonds I own are small earrings that my mom gave me following graduation from PT school. I cherish them and wear them everyday. Thanks for sharing your stories....You are a great host!!!
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lois, IL 06/07/2008
shivan,i have been trying to comment to you,but it's not working..i hope that they will get this fixed..
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Tina, MD 06/05/2008
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